This is part one of a three part blog.
About a year ago I held nothing back, I had not an ounce of fear or doubt,...I
totally went after something I wanted, but even more so, believed I could
have.
I was applying for an events reporting position with the
national design blog,
Apartment Therapy.
I worked, I slaved, I got a press badge for a
Cooper-Hewitt event, I interviewed members of
Eva Zeisel's family and took pictures of the museum director.
For about two weeks, in my own mind, I was
absolutely an events reporter for Apartment Therapy.
I did not get the position. Not only did I not get it, but I got no response at
all. Not even a little "we regret to inform you" note...and here I
was thinking I was going to knock'em dead. Huh!
So, this story doesn't have a happy ending. However, as we well
know, life is not about the destination, it's about the journey and to me, this
was one hell of a ride. I met some amazing people through the two samples I
wrote. I also, got to work with a fantastic writing coach-a story in and of
itself.
So here it is.
I found out about
Apartment Therapy's call for submissions
from my lawyer friend,
Kate Metzger. She really
thought the position would be perfect for me. So did I!
The first person I told about my new "project" was
Cynthia Kling-a writer and writing coach.
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I wish there were a glitter font available just for her name
because as far as I'm concerned, she's a rock star. And...she's reading this
and saying "oh hell no, not glitter." Cynthia's understated and a bit
humble.
However, I'm not and I'm just gonna spill it. She's got quite the resume. She's
written for national magazines like
Conde Nast Traveler. She was the last person to interview Eva Zeisel before her
passing for the
Wall Street Journal. As one of the founding editors of Domino magazine she helped to shape its
content and identity-especially with her regular column,
The Adventuress (below). (Also, check her out in action in
this video.)
I couldn't have asked for a better pair of eyes on my work. The
thing is, somehow these eyes came to me gratis.
I've known Cynthia for years. She used to come into my store
back in 2006. She signed up for my email newsletter and followed my updates.
She liked my writing. She prompted me to take it more seriously and made the
suggestion to start getting experience with small publications. So, I did.
I wrote few articles for Hudson Valley Mercantile and one for Hudson Valley Life.
I'm glad I took her advice. I had writing samples and
experience to point to on my resume for the Apartment Therapy editors to see. That
is, if they ever looked at it. The point is though, I was more prepared for
this opportunity and I have Cynthia to thank for that..
When I told Cynthia about the opportunity I had in front of
me, she was very excited. Unexpectedly-even for her-she took me under her
wing.
I think I need to stop asking "why?" and just acknowledge
the fact that she obviously has a passion for what she does. She is in the
right place doing the right thing.
Cynthia is a born coach. She is the kind of person who sees
the best in people. A natural reporter and writer who is always looking for a
story and is supremely interested in what makes people tick and what makes you,
you.
This is the person she is and the foundation she stands on
from which to teach.
Cynthia turned to coaching after many people asked her to
help them edit their work and saw that there was a need she could meet. She also,
wanted to be the person she wished she had when she began writing.
Cynthia's writing career began late in life and she wished
she had someone with wisdom, who was gentle, but firm and acted as a guide.
Cynthia was all of these things and then some to me.
When I spoke with her last week, she said she had some
clients who were working on articles for the internet, one is working on a book about gardening, another, writing a graphic novel and two have books headed for
publishing! So if you've ever dreamt of being a published author, now you know who
to get in touch with for help.
My adventures in event reporting were beyond amazing, but
having Cynthia by my side, only lent fuel to my fire.
She is the one I have to thank for inspiring me to start
writing in the first place. She was always an acquaintance who took an interest
in me, but now I can easily call her "friend".
Sometimes you don't get what you want in life, what you
sought after. Instead, you receive something beautiful and unexpected.
The ending of this story isn't what I wanted, but it's all mine and I'm pretty happy with it.
If you would like to hire Cynthia Kling to work on improving
your writing or a specific project, she can be reached by e-mail at ckling@panix.com